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Jake, Marcel and Jamie have launched a new podcast exploring what it is to become a father for the first time
Jake, Marcel and Jamie have introduced a new podcast exploring what it is to turn into a father for the initially time.

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The new dads open up about starting to be fathers for the to start with time, the struggles they’ve confronted and how speaking about it as close friends has assisted their mental wellness.

Jamie Jewitt, Marcel Somerville and Jake Quickenden have a single significant point in frequent – they have all come to be dads for the to start with time around the earlier year.

Marcel welcomed his son Roman in January 2021, Jake his son Leo in February 2021, and Jamie his daughter Nell in Oct 2020.

Now, the 3 lads have launched a new podcast It’s Not All Dad, where they sit down to discuss how fatherhood has modified them, their lives and the troubles they facial area getting to be mom and dad in the public eye.

We sat down to chat to the Jamie, Jake and Marcel to talk all points parenthood, relationships and obtaining a baby through the pandemic.

Marcel, Jamie and Jake are friends who have also all become dads for the first time in the past year
Marcel, Jamie and Jake are close friends who have also all become dads for the to start with time in the earlier calendar year.

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Notify us all about your new podcast, how did it arrive about?

Jamie: The podcast is referred to as It really is Not All Dad. We’re all pals and we have all experienced babies at the same time, and so we believed – let us discuss about it.

Has obtaining friends likely through the very same approach as you served with your mental well being though getting dads?

Marcel: There are a large amount of matters, remaining a new father, that you consider ‘am I the only a person experience like this?’, and when you communicate to somebody who is in the exact same place as you, you realise you might be not by yourself in it.

Jamie: There is certainly unquestionably an factor of aid there, mainly because a good deal of the time you sense clueless and you sense silly, and it is really wonderful to get validation that you might be not the only a person sensation like that.

You could possibly be friends, but have you at any time disagreed over parenting variations?

Jamie: We never disagree as such, but we do do points in a different way because we are in diverse scenarios, our property life and our young children are wholly diverse. But we all concur that there is no one proper way to do it, and that’s what we have always come back to. Specially in this general public eye when you’re remaining scrutinised for currently being a parent, you do get built to come to feel lousy and really feel like you happen to be carrying out the improper thing. We have all completed factors a bit differently, but we realise that there will be unique approaches to do matters and the ‘right way’ is what is greatest for you, your partner and the little one.

Marcel: I completely agree.

Jamie told us there is no 'right way' to parent as everyone is in a different position
Jamie instructed us there is no ‘right way’ to guardian as anyone is in a distinct place.

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What amazed you the most about getting a dad?

Marcel: The poo. Roman’s poo is crazy, I wasn’t completely ready for them.

Jamie: The messy aspect of things is a shock to the procedure!

How has turning into a father modified your partnership with your other 50 %?

Marcel: For me, there is certainly yet another level of adoration for Bex – the way she carried the being pregnant and then labour, it was awesome to check out. Just viewing her going by people things and currently being so brave about it, the respect concentrations just flew up a lot more than they were currently.

Jamie: As soon as the toddler comes, it can be just staff get the job done tends to make the dream function – that’s exactly where we try out and make up for almost everything and check out and enable out since they have carried out the hardest job of all.

Marcel: Me and Bex have been striving to implement a ‘date night’ considering that almost everything opened up, we try and have 1 night a week where by we do some thing just us.

Jake: I’m fortunate adequate that I have watched Soph with her son for the past 6 years, so I now realized how astounding she was, I by now realized what an remarkable mum she was heading to be. It makes you really like them a tiny little bit far more, watching what they go as a result of in labour, watching their bodies change and the way they take care of on their own really. I am a minor little bit in awe of my Mrs, she does my head in, but she’s extraordinary.

Marcel and his other half Rebecca have been trying to implement a date night one a week
Marcel and his other half Rebecca have been seeking to implement a date night time 1 a week.

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Jake, did you feel additional self-assured getting a father for the reason that your associate experienced been by means of it prior to?

Jake: It was funny, I stated to Soph ‘we’re going to be high-quality, you have performed this all before’. And she mentioned, ‘I’ve neglected everything!’ – so a lot has improved in 7 several years! The point is, I have bought an astounding bond with Freddy [Sophie’s son], he’s my greatest mate, we virtually do anything alongside one another. So, that has assisted me in a way, but it hasn’t served me with the newborn stage. I didn’t know what to be expecting with a newborn and it was a lot more durable than I imagined.

Jake's partner Sophie is also mum to a little boy, Fred, who Jake says is his 'best friend'
Jake’s spouse Sophie is also mum to a little boy, Fred, who Jake suggests is his ‘best friend’.

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How do you imagine turning into parents for the duration of the pandemic has been different?

Marcel: I sense like I’ve experienced more bonding time than I would have had.

Jamie: The pandemic has been a authentic difficult predicament for every person, but if there ever was a silver-lining it would probably be ours for that cause.

Jake: I have obtained some a lot respect for solitary mother and father now, juggling Leo with me and Soph nevertheless just isn’t simple. But I’ve just long gone ‘oh my god, there are people today out there that do this alone’, there is people out there that never have any support, and it just blows my brain how outstanding all those individuals are.

Listen to Its Not All Father on the World Participant or wherever you get your podcasts.